Charlotte had a friend come to visit the other day and was showing her around our house.
They arrived at this photo on display in our hall.
It features Vanessa, me and a chubby Jamie who was then just a few months old.
The fact that Charlotte doesn't appear has irked her for some time. And, with her pal standing alongside her, Miss White offered an explanation.
"I'm not in that picture," she said, "because I was dead."
It never gets any easier.